Lesson 5

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LESSON 5 (IRUẸMWIN NOGISẸN)

 
HOW TO KEEP PEACE WITH YOUR RELATIVES

“Clothe yourselves with… kindness, humility, mildness, and patience”-Colossians 3:12

VBENE UWẸ VBE EMWA VBUWE ẸGBẸE KHIAN YA GU OBỌ EGBE HẸ

 “Uwa gha mwẹ … itohan, imuegberriotọ,   ọmẹhẹ kevbe iziengbe” Kọlose 3:12.

Marriage creates a new family. Though you will always love and respect your parents, your mate is now the most important person on earth for you. This may be difficult for some of your relatives to accept. But Bible principles can help you to find a balance, so that you can keep peace with your relatives as you work hard to build your new family relationship.
A gha ru orọnmwẹ nẹ, ẹgbẹe ọgbọn ẹre a ghi mwẹ. Agharhemiẹn wẹẹ u gha ye gha rhie ọghọ ne evbibiẹ ruẹ kevbe u gha ye hoẹmwẹ iran, ọmwa ne uwa gba rrọọ vbe orọnmwẹ ẹre ọ ghi sikẹ ru ẹ sẹ vbe agbọn na. Emwa eso vbe ẹgbẹe ruẹ I khian ghee ẹre vberriọ. Sokpan ilele nọ rre Baibol gha sẹtin ru iyobọ nuẹ ya ru emwi hia ye oreghe, ne u mieke nag u obọ emwa vbuwe ẹgbẹe, zẹvbe ne u ya hia ne asikẹgbe ne khuankhuankhuan gha rre ẹgbẹe ọgbọn ne u mwẹ.

SECTION 1 (ABỌ NOKARO)

 
MAINTAIN A PROPER VIEW OF YOUR RELATIVES

WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS: “Honour your father and your mother” (Ephesians 6:2). Regardless of how old you are, you always need to honour and respect parents. Recognize that your mate too, as a son or a daughter, needs to give attention to his or her parents. “Love is not jealous”, so never feel threatened by the relationship your mate has with them.- 1 Corinthians 13:4; Galatians 5:26.

GHA YE ARO NỌ KHẸKE GHEE EMWA NI RRE ẸGBẸE RUẸ

 “Ye ọghọ ne erha kevbe iyuẹ”. (Ẹfisọs 6:2). Ẹi mwẹ vbene u khian waan sẹ hẹ, ọ khẹke ne u rhie uyi kevbe ọghọ ne evbibiẹ ruẹ. U ghi vbe rẹn wẹẹ, te ọ khẹke ne ọmwa ne uwa gba rrọọ vbe orọnmwẹ gha mwẹ ẹghẹ ne evbibiẹ ọre. ‘Ahoẹmwọ mwa I gbọvo’, rhunmwuda ọni, ghẹ fian afianma ye asikẹgbe ne ọmwa ne uwa gba rrọọ vbe orọnmwẹ gu evbibiẹ orọ mwẹ.- 1 Kọrinti 13:4; Galatia 5:26.

WHAT YOU AN DO:

Avoid making broad statements, such as “Your family always puts me down” or Your mother never likes what I do”

 

Try to see things from your mate’s perspective.

EMWI NE U GHA SẸTIN RU:

Ghẹ gie ẹmwẹ wag ha fo vbe unu ruẹ, ne u gha ta egbe ẹmwẹ vbennia wẹẹ, “Ẹgbẹe ruẹ I ghee mwẹ sẹ ọmwa” ra “Emwi ọkpa I rrọọ ne I ru nọ ya ẹko rhiẹnrhiẹn iyuẹ”

 

Uwẹ vbe ya roro egbe ghee

 


 

SECTION 2 (ABỌ NOGIEVA)

BE FIRM WHEN NECESSARY

WHAT THE BIBLE SAYS: “A man will leave his father and his mother and he wills tick to his wife, and they will becme one flesh” (Genesis 2:24). When you marry, your parents may feel that they are still responsible for you, and they may want to be more involved in your marriage than they should be.

MUDIA YE ẸMWẸ OBỌ RUẸ VBE ẸGHẸ NỌ KHẸKE

EMWI NE BAIBOL KHARE: “Ọna ẹre ọ zẹe ne okpia gha na sẹ erhae kevbe iyẹe raẹ, ọ ghi rhikhan mu amwẹ ọnrẹn, iran ghi gha re ọkpa”. (Gẹnẹsis 2:24). U gha ru orọnmwẹ nẹ, evbibiẹ ruẹ sẹtin ye gha roro ẹre wẹẹ ototọ iran ẹnre u ye ye, rhunmwuda ọni, iran sẹtin ye gha hoo ne iran gha guan ye ẹmwẹ orọnmwẹ ruẹ nọ ma te kaan iran.

WHAT YOU CAN DO:

If you are concerned about how much the relatives are involved in your life, discuss it with your mate when things are clam

EMWI NE U GHA SẸTIN RU:

Adeghẹ ẹko I rhiẹnrhiẹn ruẹ yọ vbene ẹgbẹe ya fi ukpẹ ye ẹmwẹ uwa, gualọ ẹghẹ ne khuẹrhẹ ya gu ọmwa ne uwa gba rrọọ vbe orọnmwẹ guan vbekpa re.

It is up to you and your mate to agree on what boundaries you will set for them and then lovingly let them know. You can be open and direct without being rude (Proverbs 15:1). Humility, mildness, and patience will help you build a warm relationship with your relatives and continue “putting u with one another in love”. –Ephesians 4:2.
Uwẹ vbe ọmwa ne uwa gba rrọọ vbe orọnmwẹ ẹre ọ khian tae, ẹmwẹ uwa nọ gha gie evbibiẹ uwa guan yi, kevbe uwa ghi tae ma iran vbe odẹ ne khuẹrhẹ. U gha sẹtin ta ẹmwẹ nọ rrọọ ruẹ orhiọn kevbe u wav be suigiẹ yọ vbene u I na ze vbe udu (Itan 15:1). Imuegberriotọ, ekhọe ọmẹhẹ kevbe iziengbe gha ru iyobọ nuẹ ya gha gu emwa ni rre uwu ẹgbẹe loo vbe ọyẹnmwẹ kevbe ne u vbe sẹtin ‘ya ekhọe ahoẹmwọmwa gha mu emwi wuegbe vbe ẹghẹ hia’ – Ẹfisọs 4:2.
WHAT YOU CAN DO:

Come to a mutual agreement on how you will take care of these matters

EMWI NE GHA SẸTIN RU:

Uwa eveva tau nu ọkpa vbe nọ dekaan odẹ ne uwa gha la vbe ẹmwẹ na

TRY TO UNDERSTAND

It is important to understand your parent’s feelings and their point of view. They do not mean any harm with their involvement. They genuinely care about you. It can be difficult for your parents to view you and your mate as an independent family.

HIA NE U RẸN VBENE EKHỌE EVBIBIẸ RUẸ YE HẸ

Ọ keghi re emwi ne kpataki ne u rẹn emwi ne evbibiẹ ruẹ mu roro kevbe vbene iran ya ghee emwi hẹ. Ẹi re te iran hoo ne iran rria ruẹ owa rua. Ekhọe hia ẹre iran ya hoẹmwẹ ruẹ. Ọ lọghọ a ke miẹn wẹẹ evbibiẹ ruẹ sẹ ruẹ rae zẹvbe ọmwa nọ rre ọghe obọ re.

ASK YOURSELF…

Why is it natural for my mate’s parents to be interested in our marriage?

NỌ EGBUẸ WẸẸ

Vbọsiẹ nọ na mobọ wa yerriọ wẹẹ avbe orhuan mwẹ wa mwẹ ẹkorhiẹnrhiẹnmwẹ daa orọnmwẹ ọghe ima?

They may even feel abandoned. But by following Bible principles and by having open communication, you will still be able to honour your parents without compromising your marriage.
Iran sẹtin gha roro wẹẹ te u ghi wa mu iran fua. Sokpan, deghẹ u nag ha lele avbe ilele ni rre Baibol, kevbe u nag ha ta ẹmwẹ nọ rrọọ ruẹ ekhọe, u gha ye sẹtin rhie ọghọ ne evbibiẹ ruẹ vbene u I khian na mu orọnmwẹ ruẹ ye ikpadede.
ASK YOURSELF…

How can I put my mate first, and at the same time, show respect for my parents?

NỌ EGBUẸ WẸẸ

De vbene I khian ya mu ọghe ọmwa ne ima gba rrọọ vbe orọnmwẹ karo hẹ, vbene I khian i na vbe yangbe evbibiẹ mwẹ.

 

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